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The curious thing about curiosity

9/19/2017

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I was born with an insatiable curiosity.  Even now one of my favourite things is ‘not knowing’, it's the road to discovery. The best books are the books I haven’t read … the best places, the ones I’ve never visited and the maybe the best people are those I’ve yet to meet.
 
We are all born with the gift of curiosity. It’s the way children learn and explore their world, but somewhere along the line, through the rebuke of an adult, fear of failure or an education system that values knowledge and answers over questions and inquisitive thought, many of us stop asking.

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It’s interesting that while Australia has the world’s longest period of compulsory education (11years), we are fast falling behind many countries in the world in our student’s academic abilities. Finland takes the prize for consistently topping the international ranking for education systems and students only attend school for approximately 20 hours per week. Children are encouraged to explore, discover, play and learn from their natural curiosity. Finland has a mandatory 15-minute outdoor free-play break every hour of every day.
 
One parent asked his son what he did for gym that day. "They sent us into the woods with a map and compass and we had to find our way out," he said. Finns put into practice the mantra, "The work of a child is to play”.
 
Children dare to see possibilities and wonder where we have "learned" to see limits. What we know so often blinds us to what we don’t know. Curiosity opens the door to possibilities and innovation … it sees beyond what already exists.
 
Curiosity led men to discover new lands, explore space, make major scientific discoveries and create life-changing inventions. Albert Einstein believed that curiosity is more important than knowledge. He insisted he had no special talent, he was only passionately curious.
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Here are three things I love about genuine curiosity:
 
Curiosity lives with humility. It doesn’t have all the answers. It asks good questions … questions that come from a true desire to understand not to interrogate. It’s anxious to learn. It recognises that every person and every situation has something to teach. It lives comfortably with not knowing and is open to the ideas and perspectives of others. It can embrace paradox and stay open to anomaly. The best leaders are curious.
 
Curiosity holds the power of understanding. It’s the ultimate tool in conflict resolution, the alternative to telling, blaming, judging and shaming. It opens the door to hear the other person’s perspective … it’s respectful … it’s accepting and inclusive … it leads to collaboration in sorting out the issue.  
 
But curiosity requires courage. The opposite of certainty isn’t uncertainty but curiosity, always willing to explore the unknown. While there is comfort in certainty, I feel most alive when I step outside of certainty. It can be risky to admit you don’t know but there are no limits to an open mind.

The good news is we don’t have to learn to be curious, it is a gift we were born with, we just need to reignite it. “The quality of your life is in direct proportion to the amount of uncertainty you can comfortably deal with.” ~Tony Robbins
 
Curiosity was given to us for a purpose. We need to nurture it in our children and rekindle in ourselves the passionate curiosity of our childhood.
  • Maybe a good place to start is to ask more questions …  good questions … questions that deepen relationships and help people feel valued and heard. I recently read about a family who took turns in answering three questions at dinner each evening, “What was the sparkle in your day?” “Where did you have an opportunity to show kindness?” “What was one thing you we grateful for today?”
  • Learn something new every day
  • Read books you wouldn’t normally read
  • Visit places you’ve never been
  • Determine to meet a new person every week
  • Be alert to the ‘yet-to-be-discovered’ all around you every day
 
   “ We are not what we know but what we are willing to learn". 
Mary Catherine Bateson
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Peter Stanton
9/22/2017 11:34:00 pm

I've been without internet for 3 weeks and I realized how much my curiosity was challenged...I have friends who scoff at Google, but I think it's because they lack curiosity.
I am very moved by your words "Albert Einstein believed that curiosity is more important than knowledge. He insisted he had no special talent, he was only passionately curious."

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    ​I'm a mother and grandmother who loves  discovering beauty in unexpected places.

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